“Cultivation of sitting in silence, listening to the voices of spirit within and around me, through meeting for worship. This foundational contemplative practice, which led me to Buddhism, Integral Spirituality and beyond, is the basis of my music, psychotherapy, and teaching.”
Willow Pearson Trimbach ’88 earned a BA from Stanford University in Feminist, Gender, and Sexuality Studies and went on to receive an MA in Transpersonal Counseling Psychology with a concentration in Music Therapy from Naropa University, followed by a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from The Wright Institute.
Now a licensed clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, and nationally board-certified music therapist, Willow leads a private practice—Integral Relational Psychotherapy—based in the East Bay of Northern California. She also serves as Director of Clinical Training and Core Faculty at the California Institute of Integral Studies in San Francisco. In addition to her clinical and academic work, Willow is a published author and singer/songwriter; her second book, The Emotional Truth of Dreams: Learning from Dream Dialogues in Psychotherapeutic and Spiritual Practice, co-authored with Eva Tuschman Leonard, is set to be released by Routledge in 2026. Her eighth album, Caesura's Cry, is set to be released by Lionessroars this July.
Her advice to the Class of 2025? “Your unique contributions to the world emerge from the places where passion and service join.”
A dual recipient of the Mendenhall Award for Service and the Bush Award for Character, Scholarship, and Service in 1988, Willow continues to embody these values. As she puts it, “I cannot do everything, but I can do something”—a line from her senior page that continues to guide her today.
This morning, Nick Heckles ’28, Kylie Poole ’28, Head of School Ken Aldridge, Samantha Poole, and Matt Heckles gathered for an appreciation and reflection breakfast with Austin and Vega, our exchange students from The Friends’ School Hobart in Tasmania, Australia.
WFS Director of College Guidance Kathleen Martin recently joined 11 other guidance counselors from Quaker-affiliated independent schools across the East Coast for a two-day visit to Guilford College, the only Quaker-founded college in the Southeast.
French 5 students explored the connections between food, culture, and language — and what better way to do that than through dessert? This week, they made a délicieuse sauce au chocolat in class. Miam!
Smart Machines students recently learned how to solder, a process that involves joining metal pieces together with melted filler metal that solidifies into a strong, conductive bond.
The WFS College Guidance Department welcomed Patrick Orr, Senior Associate Director of Admission and Director of Scholarship Recruitment at Centre College, to campus for a College Financial Aid Program.
First-grade students gathered for the annual monarch butterfly migration, a beloved tradition in the lower school that connects science, Spanish, and art classes.
Have you been to the Quaker Closet (QC) this year? For those new to the Friends community or who may have missed our announcements in the Friday Message, the QC is the clothing consignment store located on the ground floor of the middle/upper school campus.
After learning about El Día de los Muertos in Spanish class, first graders brought the tradition to life by decorating colorful calaveras—sugar skulls that honor and celebrate loved ones.
WFS 6th graders had an incredible opportunity to connect via Zoom with Earth science researchers from the University of Delaware, who are currently on a research expedition in the Atlantic Ocean near the equator off Cape Verde!
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