“Watch the faculty, not just the ones in your best subjects! And, of course, the staff. They all have something to teach you, regardless of their position at the school.”
After graduating from Wilmington Friends School, Barbara Bovbjerg ’68 earned a degree in Philosophy and Literature from Oberlin College, where she was active in meditation and management of cooperative living. She later completed a Master’s in Regional Planning at Cornell University.
Barbara spent her entire career in public service, 30 years of it in the U.S. Government Accountability Office (GAO), retiring in 2020 as Managing Director of the Education, Workforce, and Income Security team. In this role, she oversaw hundreds of major projects and reports that supported congressional decision-making. Earlier in her career at GAO, she managed the retirement income sub-group, developing deep expertise in Social Security, pensions, and retirement savings.
What Barbara valued most about her work was the opportunity to make a difference at the national level through nonpartisan, fact-based analysis. “Helping Congress and federal agencies better serve the public was the greatest job on Earth. Even when I didn’t agree personally with a policy decision made in my area of expertise, I knew the decision was made with access to the best analysis and the true facts.” She especially appreciated “the opportunity to interact directly with Congress—Members and staff both—and debate the policy and analytic implications of certain policies or proposals.”
Barbara credits her time at Wilmington Friends with laying the foundation for a life of public service and principled leadership. “I learned that there is a broader community in the world than just people I knew, and we should all do what we can to benefit that broader community. Spending my career in the public policy arena was likely the result of the fine faculty and staff I saw every day at Friends.”
WFS also gave her the tools to think critically and speak truth to power. “Learning to think logically and for oneself was a really valuable academic gift. But Friends also demonstrated the importance of staying true to yourself and speaking out against the wrongs of the world.” That preparation served her well during her years at Oberlin, particularly during a time of national unrest. “When I moved on to Oberlin College, I was really ready for the type of anti-war activism that was endemic there at the time.”
She participated in a wide range of activities while at WFS, including basketball and music (piano), and was recognized with academic awards in math and English. She also served as editor of the Class of 1968 yearbook.
Reflecting on her journey, Barbara traces her passion for making a difference directly back to the values and voices she encountered at Friends: “Interest in improving the world, interest in analytic thinking—it all came together for me.”
The WFS volleyball program honored the life and legacy of Coach Bob Trinsey last night. Since 1999, Bob and the Trinsey family have shaped Wilmington Friends School volleyball into one of the state’s most respected programs.
Last week, Jimmy Butterfield’s ’20 band (second from left), Butterfield, played in Eakins Oval in front of the Philly Art Museum. They were the first band on the R&B After Dark Series that night. Mark McMillan ‘20 (far left) and Jack Hanson ‘18 (far right) came to hear them play and had a blast together!
Thank you to our incredible Building Services and Grounds teams for all the behind-the-scenes work that makes our campus ready to welcome students back!
Members of the WFS Class of 2026 gathered this morning for a Senior Breakfast before their last first day of school! Special thanks to the Senior Class Reps for hosting and the delicious food.
The first day of school is here, and lower school students were so excited to greet their friends and teachers on this beautiful morning! Welcome back, friends!
It was a beautiful day to welcome our lower school students and families to "Friends Village" as they explored their new learning cottages for the very first time!
Thank you to all of the new families who joined us for last night’s New Parent & Guardian Reception! Guests were welcomed by Head of School Ken Aldridge, connected with members of the Home & School Association, and learned about the many ways to get involved in our community.
A big thanks to our Home & School Association for helping organize this event, greeting families, and sharing the numerous ways they help enhance life at WFS. We are excited for the year ahead and look forward to all that we will do together!
WFS Lower School teachers spent the past week moving into “Friends Village” and setting up their new classrooms! We can't wait to welcome Lower School families back to campus tomorrow for our Open House. See you soon!
This summer, Felicity Joppa '31 represented the USA at a CISV Youth Meeting in Brasília, the capital of Brazil, with a delegation from Brandywine Valley CISV. Youth Meetings bring 12-13-year-olds from 8 countries together to learn from each other, build global friendships, and work for peace.
On Sunday, the WFS football team hosted athletes from Special Olympics Delaware. WFS student-athletes and Special Olympians participated in various football drills and enjoyed water ice together!
Check out the earliest image of Friends Lower School children — taken in 1891 in the kindergarten room. Friends' School had the second kindergarten class in Delaware and, for several years, served as a “normal” or training school for kindergarten teachers. The teacher pictured here is Katharine Clark.
Our Lower School teachers have begun moving into their cottages this week and are so excited to welcome everyone back. See you soon!
Today marked the start of orientation for our new Wilmington Friends School faculty and staff! Over the next three days, they’ll dive into the history of WFS, explore Quaker Faith and Practice, connect with their mentors, and enjoy activities like “Who’s Who?” and Friends Trivia.
Congratulations to the following WFS student-athletes who were named as some of the top three-sport athletes in the State of Delaware by Delaware Online!
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